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Becky was my gym teacher at Benton Harbor High School. Becky you the best understanding teacher and really a kid at heart.
Rest in Peace my friend.
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Paget Rau Whitney Class of 1971
February 25th, 2025 at 2:34pm
Mrs Doan was one of the best swimming and gym teachers in the 1980's in Benton Harbor High School she will be missed !
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Earleen Rodgers
February 24th, 2025 at 8:18pm
Aunt Becky, I feel so blessed to have had the honor of calling you my own. You were a cornerstone of my childhood, filling every moment with warmth, laughter, and love. Whenever you walked into a room, you brought a radiant energy that was impossible to ignore. Your stories were unforgettable, your laughter was infectious, and your spirit shone brighter than all the diamonds you adored. RIH with Uncle Dave xoxo
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Jamie McConville
February 24th, 2025 at 4:33pm
It is with a heavy heart that we remember and honor the life of Mrs. Becky Doan who was more than just a Pom Pon coach to us; she was a mentor, a mother figure, and a source of unwavering support and guidance. Her passion, dedication, and love for her "girls" were evident in every practice, every performance, and every moment we shared with her.
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Marie Butler
February 24th, 2025 at 4:19pm
I can still see Becky as the majorette that she was, leading the BHHS Tiger Marching Band and I was cheerleading on the cinder track. It seems like yesterday hearing that great band and cheering for those Tigers. Meeting up with her and David Ray, years later wash such a blast. Becky was always the life of the party and there are so many good memories. I'm so very happy for all of the students whose lives that she touched. She was The Best.
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Debbie Henke Davis, friend and classmate
February 24th, 2025 at 1:58pm
Mrs. Doan was my Pom Pon leader in the 80’s and was an incredible example of strength, hard work, a visionary and kindness. I would run into her from time to time over the past several decades and she always remembered me. I am so grateful for her influence in my life and the impact she made on Benton Harbor. Rest in peace, Mrs. Doan
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Brigitte Fitz
February 23rd, 2025 at 4:43pm
Mrs.Doan was the most kind and loving teacher at Benton Harbor High School, so easy to talk to and not quick to judge.Rest in peace because heaven has gained an angel 😇
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Connie Kirkwood
February 22nd, 2025 at 10:05pm
Becky was a great lady with a big heart and an even bigger smile. She worked hard and loved her students. Rest well Becky, thank you for all you did for the students of Benton Harbor Area Schools. You always made me laugh.
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Mary Meeks
February 22nd, 2025 at 2:45pm
Becky will truly be missed. What a great friend she was. Her laughter filled every room, and she was kind to everyone she met. Becky was a beacon of positivity, and though she may be gone, her spirit lives on in the memories we shared. She and David were a part of so many experiences and memories! I will forever cherish her friendship."
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Linda McConville
February 22nd, 2025 at 1:01pm
Mrs. Doan was my gym teacher in 1990 & my Pom-Pon coach from 1991-1993. I remember she let me try out even though I missed the sign up date by 1 day. That's the kind of person she was...kind, understanding & full of joy. I remember her always teaching us Pom Pons about quality over quantity & she always encouraged us to be our best. She will be remembered for her elegance, grace and smile. May she take her rest peacefully in Paradise. My condolences to her family.
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Melody Allen
February 20th, 2025 at 4:29pm
Mrs. Doan was my Pom Pom director at BHHS int he 80's, she was a lady of respect, dignity and support for all. Mrs. Doan "for me" will always be known and remembered for her contagious smile and laugh - I had the pleasure of running into Mrs. Doan at the Marc lll not too long ago and even after 40plus years she still remembered me (we did not miss a beat in our conversation for our love for life and God) Mrs. Doan simply one of Gods Angels on Earth. Prayers to all who were blessed with her in their life. Sincerely, Suzanne Schultz/Hoyh
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Suzanne Schultz
February 20th, 2025 at 3:57pm
Mrs. Doan was my high school gym teacher. I'll always remember her for the love she had for her students and her Tiger Pride. Rest in peace. Your legacy of love will live on forever through the loves of all of us who were blessed to have you in our lives.
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Stacy Masters
February 20th, 2025 at 9:39am
Rest well Mrs.Doan,
You were not only an inspiring leader, you demonstrated grace and class to our squad with those same expectations of us. Thank you for being you! #TMB❤️🙏🏾
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Cassandra Covington
February 20th, 2025 at 7:22am
Becky always had a smile, greeted everyone as a friend. We will miss you, you smile and effervescent personality. You are once again United with Dave. RIP my friend, you deserve the rest.
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Nancy Steele Butzbach
February 19th, 2025 at 10:42pm
My life will forever be touched by this earth angel - Mrs. Doan. I'm so grateful for her leadership, coaching and ultimately her encouragement. When I reflect on my life, she is a touchstone of grace & strength for me. I hope to continue to pay it forward by making a positive impact in the lives of others. Truly, she is light on a hill that will forever shine bright through her works & legacy!
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Donna Adkins
February 19th, 2025 at 2:55pm
Ms. Doan was my Pom Pom coach from 1979-1981. She was so kind and encouraging to us. Ms. Doan was such a pleasure to work with and made being on the squad a fun a memorable experience. May the God of all comfort, comfort her family. Our sincerest condolences.
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Pastor James and Leontyne Hines
February 19th, 2025 at 2:54pm
My heart is truly heavy. Thank you for making such a strong impact on all of your students. Wrapping your family in spiritual love & strength. 💕
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Lisa Z. Brown
February 19th, 2025 at 2:54pm
I can still see her and Mrs. Arbutt in the gym. I don't think I ever saw her not smiling unless someone was seriously out of line, even then she went right back to her sparkling self. She was so full of joy and encouragement. She was the kind of teacher you could go to with anything, no judgment, but she would do anything she could to help. Definitely a loss.
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Annette Brady
February 19th, 2025 at 2:20pm
Thank you for your service as a great teacher, a great coach and the opportunity of working with you while I was employed in the Benton Harbor Areas Schools Athletic Department. You always made me smile. R.I.P. Mrs. Doan.
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Roena Rice
February 19th, 2025 at 10:34am
Mrs. Doan was my gym teacher in high school. The oast time I seen her was at one of my class reunions. RIh
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Margie Swift
February 19th, 2025 at 8:20am
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