Pam Weniger Feeney

September 8th, 1949 - October 4th, 2021

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Mike, Ben, Laura and family, Rob, Jessica and family, The Neidlinger’s are heartbroken for each of you. We spent much time with Pam in bleachers, travel and family gatherings. I loved and appreciated Pam’s wise counsel and candor. I always knew where she stood and I truly believe we respected each other’s views. We had so many laughs together and occasional tears. I will miss my friend but am forever thankful for the impact of her friendship in my life as well as my family’s. Your wife, mom and “Pamma” loved each of you well. What precious memories. Love from the Neidlinger family.

Darlene Neidlinger

October 9th, 2021 at 8:22am

Mike, Ben and family, Rob and family; My heart aches for you as you stay strong and say good-bye to the most loving, caring Pamma. So many memories were made when our boys were in school. The soccer tournaments, high school games, proms and weekend sleepovers. So enjoyed Christmas when we parents would fine dine and then return to someone’s home for the reading of “The Night Before Christmas” by Pam. Many laughs were had by all. God bless you and your families Love, Mona Stanley

Mona Stanley

October 7th, 2021 at 9:00pm

Thank you for being my friend, Pam. Your life story emphasized your impact on your family and your students, but you also impacted the women in your life. Your role model as a mother was inspiring. Your transition from Mom to Pamma was something we chatted about, and I am confident that your grandchildren will cherish the memories you made with them. I am reminded of the saying that people only truly die when others on earth stop thinking about them. Your memory will be cherished by your family, your students, and your friends. My feelings about our friendship are best summed up by Winnie the Pooh, ““How lucky am I to have had something that makes saying goodbye so hard.”