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I am very sorry to hear of Jeff"s passing. Truly a shock. I enjoyed the years Jeff an I bowled together. Whether on the same team or not, he was always a lot of fun. He will be missed very much.
Mike Hollis
July 31st, 2006 at 12:00am
I remember Jeff when he lived down the street from me on 14th Ave. My brother Paul who passed away last year on 7/27 was friends with Jeff and Mike.
Penny Pugh (Doffing)
July 31st, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal, I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. What a total shock. He was a great guy and such a good dad to the boys. He will fondly remembered and greatly missed. Vicki and Terry asked me to tell you that they are thinking about and how sorry that they were to hear about Jeff. We will be praying for you and the boys.
Andrea Love
August 1st, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal and boys, I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's shocking passing. We will keep you in our prayers and whatever you may need please just pick up the phone and call.
Wanda Robertson
August 1st, 2006 at 12:00am
Dear Crystal and boys, I am so shocked that this happened. Jeff was really special, he had so much to give. He truly loved coaching his boy's and other children. He always made an extra effort for those kids that needed extra help. Taylor loved having Jeff as a coach and friend. It was so great that Jeff coached the winter baseball league, Taylor really enjoyed it. Jeff could see potential in a boy and would work to bring it out. Jeff truly was one of a kind and will be greatly missed. If there is anything we can do please just let us know. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Sincerely, Wade, Ginger, Nate, Taylor
The Smiths
August 1st, 2006 at 12:00am
I also remember Jeff and Mike Williams and Mike Goodrich (who I see often). the Jeff and Mike used to practically live with us. My mother has a photo of them by our christmas tree when they were young. My brother was too young to pass also. This is shocking and sad. My sympathy for all.
vikki hollis
August 1st, 2006 at 12:00am
I will forever remember my Uncle Jeff. I will remember his stays with us in California, & the cruising around town him and I did in his red firebird while listening to Pink Floyd. I thought I was the coolest 15 year old girl cruising around town with her Uncle!! I will now always think of you when the Detroit Lions play as I remember you being such a big fan. To Crystal and the boys, I will forever have you all in my heart. Please know although I’m in California I will be happier to help you out in any way possible weather it be now or later. My thoughts are with you, as I know you will find strength. I Love You!
Hope Hipes (Williams)
August 1st, 2006 at 12:00am
Lindsay, I can only say what a joy it was meeting you for the first time. I’m extremely sorry it was under these circumstances, however I hope you know what a fan I was of your dads. He was a great Uncle to me! You are such a strong beautiful girl who I can only look up to for being so! I love you and will keep you in my heart. I’m here for you if you need anything. I love you!
Hope Hipes (williams)
August 1st, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal,Justin,Jared,Jorden & Lindsey We are so very sorry for your loss of a wonderful dad, husband, and friend. Jeff will be missed dearly. Our prayers are with you. God bless you today and every day.
Shannon, Chantel & Austin Openneer-Gregory
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal, We here at Royalton Foot and Ankle, Assoc. are so very saddened to hear of your loss. My God guide you through your days ahead. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Dr. Craig D. Okonski, DPM and Dr. David R. Halstead, DMP
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal and Family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I'm a friend of your Mom's from church. My prayers are with you and your family.
Diane Vinoski
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Dad, I love you so much, and appreciate the time I had you. I have always been so proud that you're my dad. You gave me a great 2nd mom, and three wonderful brothers. I love you all. You did so much in your life. Your grandkids will always remember you! You're closer to me now than you ever were, because you're in my heart forever. Crystal, I love you...be strong. Justin, Jared, and Jorden...I love you guys. You boys will live on in his name. We will all make him proud! ALL MY LOVE, Lins
Lindsey Wyatt (Williams)
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Lindsey, I can honestly say I know exactly how you are feeling. I lost my dad suddenly at the age of 18. It is something you will never get over, just know that he will always be watching over you. You have been a good friend the short time I have known you. Just remember if you need a shoulder to cry on or just someone to talk to, I am always here for you. My deepest sympathy, Marci
Marci Ledgerwood
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
We didn't know Jeff, but we know Lindsey(his daughter)& we love her. If we would have met Jeff, I'm sure we would have loved him too.
Tammie & Eddie Sharp
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal and boys: We are so saddened to hear of Jeff's sudden passing. We had only just begun our friendship with Jeff thru Richard coaching baseball with him and thru Jordan's friendship with Jared. From what we knew of him he was a great father and you could see the joy he had when he was coaching. All our prayers go to you and the boys and if you ever need anything..... May God Bless you and keep you strong. Richard, Laurie, Jessi & Jordan Oulton
Oulton Family
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Williams family. So sorry for you're loss. Jeff and Michael were good friends with me back in the day. Jeff and I shared a house together. I remember our road trip to California. We hit the Grand Canyon where we met up with 2 bikers we spent the day with. Then Vegas. Met up with the bikers in Cali. Small world huh Jeff is in a better world now. Sorry 4 your loss. Michael.
Michael Niles
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
I am a good friend of Lindsey's and I send my condolences to all of Jeff's family and friends. Thank you,
Ryan and Randi Cox
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal, sorry to hear of your loss. I'm praying for you and your family
Lori Lee (Lakeland Hospital Purchasing)
August 2nd, 2006 at 12:00am
Dear Crystal and boys, I am so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. It breaks my heart to think of this tragedy. I don't really have words to say to take away the pain, nor to make sense of your loss. I do know that I will certainly pray for you and the boys. Please feel free to call if you need to talk or need some help. I enjoyed coaching with Jeff. We had a lot of laughs and good times with football. Justin and Jared, your dad was extremely proud of you both (i am sure of Jordon too). He loved watching you play football and baseball. It will be hard to compete without him, but he would want you to. Play for him. Don't stop because he is not there. Carry your dad in your heart and play. My son Taylor had a lot of fun having Jeff help coach him too. He wants Jared to know that he feels real bad for this. Love Mike Gohn and family
Mike Gohn
August 3rd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal and Family, Just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Kerry and Deana Wilson ( Friends of your Mom & Dad)
Kerry & Deana Wilson
August 3rd, 2006 at 12:00am
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Williams family. We remember when Jeff & Crystal came out to visit years ago and could see he was a fun-loving guy who was very dedicated to his family. John 14:2 "There are many rooms in my Father's home, and I am going to prepare a place for you."
Kim & Bob Riha (Jeff's brother Steve's family from San Diego)
August 3rd, 2006 at 12:00am
Hi there ,So sorry to hear one of my friends has passed on.I used to work with Jeff-ro, in construction back in the early 80's.We just lost contact.He was 1 HECK of a GREAT GUY. Sincererly,The Fred Hemstreet Family
Fred Hemstreet, Jr.
August 3rd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal and the boys: In recent years I have had many chances to talk with your husband and father. I came to appreciate Jeff for reasons I never knew I would. I found Jeff to be caring, trust worthy and very dedicated to whatever task he took on. During a remodeling of our office, Jeff was the lead man on the job and the work was excellant. When problems came up, Jeff handled them. On the field, I know his passion was his kids. I appreciate that greatly as you should as well. There is no reason for what has happened to Jeff, it was just his time. As a christian, although hard to do in times like this, I have to remind myself Jeff is in a better place, with his creator and he feels no pain and no anger.....just the comfort of GOD. To all of you, I wish you many fond memories of your husband and father. Our family will keep all of you in our prayers. God Bless Jon Dorow
Jon Dorow
August 3rd, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal and family, We would like to express our deepest symphathy. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Ron King & family
August 4th, 2006 at 12:00am
Im A Friend Of Lindsey When I Heard What Happend I Prayed to God For Jefry And All His Family I Asked The Lord To Give You All Strenth And Peace I Asked The Lord That If it Was Not Jeffreys Time To Leave Him unless It was Gods Will To Have Him Now I Give You My Condolence I Know That He Is In A Better Place Now And One Day you Will all Be Together again
Belen PInon-Cruz
August 5th, 2006 at 12:00am
Sorry to hear about your lose, Hope things get better for you I know how things are at times like these, you will be in our thoughts and prayers. Talk to you soon...ciao
Brandon & Brenda Lykins and Family
August 6th, 2006 at 12:00am
Dear Crystal and boys: Corey Onken is my son and he has played baseball and football with Justin over the years. We sat together at their last game in Lawrence. Although I don't know you that well, my heart dropped when Corey told me the news of Jeff. I have no words to express my sorrow for you. All I can offer is my prayers and let you know I am here if you need anything at all whether it be a ride for one of the boys to an activity or a shoulder to cry on. Please let me be a friend to you. Again, Corey and I are very sorry for your loss. Donna Paskin and Corey Onken 637-2333
Donna Paskin
August 7th, 2006 at 12:00am
I last saw Jeff in 1985, I think. He always had his trademark long hair and cool mustache! I have some very fond memories of Jeff and younger brother Mike. My mom had a special friendship with the two guys as well. One fond memory I have of Jeff was him strongly sticking up for me when three bullies kicked my butt! Jeff was tough when he needed to be but kind, gentle, and caring when the time was right. To the boys; your Dad was a great guy. Make him proud by remembering and practicing the things he taught you: how to be a good honorable man, how to swing for a base hit, how to field a gorunder, and always remember to respect and take good care of Mom. To Crystal; Jeff was a great guy and you two spent the prime of his life together. Keep the memories alive and Jeff will live on! With a heavy heart, but with fond remembrance, Bill Figeley South Haven High School Class of 1984
Bill Figeley
August 9th, 2006 at 12:00am
Crystal, Justin, Jared, and Jordan, no words can express our sympathy. Willis loved playing for Jeff in baseball and football. Jeff loved all the kids and they knew it and loved him back. He touched so many young lives. We are grateful to have known and become friends with you all. A great father, husband, friend, man, was lost, but he will be in our hearts forever. Love, Tim, Barb and Willis
Barb Dotson
August 11th, 2006 at 12:00am
I miss you so much uncle Jeffy. We all do. I know you're looking down on us. People say it gets easier.. ....but it hasn't. I love you and miss you more than the world.
Heather
October 21st, 2007 at 12:00am
Still thinking about you... I love you!
Heather Plasterer
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:00am
Hey dad...your birthday is coming up. Was just thinking about you and how much I miss you. Just had Jorden for the weekend and we went to MI Adventures. But, hopefully you seen it and were smiling :) We all miss you a ton and everyone still talks about you all the time. You will never be forgotten dad. I WILL see you again...of that I'm sure. Love you
Lindsey Wyatt
August 24th, 2009 at 12:00am
Jeff, I am so sorry I just found out you and Mike passed away. I left South Haven in 1993 so I don't get all the news. You were both really sweet guys and I remember riding the bus with both of you and talking and visiting when you and Mike would come over or I'd come by your place. Sending hugs to heaven...and again, I wish I would have known sooner. For all the times you made me smile...I send a smile up to heaven to you.
Becky Dellenbaugh
August 30th, 2011 at 12:00am