Gunnar Bennett

January 11th, 1994 - October 24th, 2012

Gunnar's Memory Wall

We encourage you to share your most beloved memories of Gunnar here, so that the family and other loved ones can always see it. Share your favorite stories or comment on those shared by others.

Amy McNeal Jere - October 25th, 2012 at 2:58pm
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Gunnar always made Grandma Ethel smile and I hope you can find peace in knowing she will be with him!

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Melissa Keen - October 25th, 2012 at 3:04pm
I had only heard this young man's name through conversations with my son before now...I have seen, however, in the last couple of days, that he was so much to so many people...My heart aches for the family and friends of Gunnar...I pray that each and every one finds some sense of peace to deal with this terrible loss that came way too soon...I'm so sorry...

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Marsha Fields - October 25th, 2012 at 3:23pm
Patti, Mike and all your family members- I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. I can only say my deepest sympathy and prayers are centered on you in this terrible time. I am praying the Lord will be your strength and let you remember the wonderful time you were able to spend with your son. Barry & Marsha Fields

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Joan Robinson - October 25th, 2012 at 3:38pm
My heart is aching for you Tommy, Patti, Tina, Evan, Cade, Tom, Gatha, Bill & Gladys. No words I can say can ease your pain right now. But be assured that many are praying for all of you that God will surround with peace & comfort you by his Holy Spirit. We all love Gunnar & he will be greatly missed, but God's plan is not always our plan. My prayers, hugs & love to you all at this very difficult time. (Tommy's Aunt Joan,Gunnars Great Aunt)

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Karen Marquez - October 25th, 2012 at 5:57pm
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Bob and Pam Suhr - October 25th, 2012 at 6:12pm
We are so deeply sorry. Our thoughts and love are with the family. We have wonderful memories of Gunnar and we will cherish those memories forever. Patty, Gladys and Bill and Evan we love you and will always love Gunnar.

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Peggy Brayman - October 25th, 2012 at 9:27pm
My deepest sympathy to your family. will hold you in my thoughts and prayers

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Jesus Aleman - October 26th, 2012 at 12:08am
So deeply sorry for your loss Patti. Keeping your family in my prayers.

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Cindy and Eric Samuel - October 26th, 2012 at 8:35am
Patti and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Love and memories last forever and I hope in time you will find some comfort in your loving memories of Gunnar. Cindy and Eric Samuel

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Bobby,Eunice,Michael Walker - October 26th, 2012 at 8:48am
Pattie and Mike and the entire Family Our prayer and support are with you it was a joy to be Gunnar 7th GRADE Boys Basketball Coach. Gunnar always practic hard and gave the South Haven Rams his Best. We wll miss you Gunnar Coach.

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Cindy and Mike Peters - October 26th, 2012 at 9:20am
Our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. My our Lord be with you and give you strength now (and forever) during this great time of grief.

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Nicole Beaver - October 26th, 2012 at 9:24am
Tom,Tina and all Family Members, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family. God Bless all of you.

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Jan & Dale Carey - October 26th, 2012 at 9:26am
We enjoyed working with Gunnar this spring/summer at Palisades. Such a terrible loss. We just never know what life has in store for us from one day to the next. May you find comfort knowing that Gunnar was loved by all those that knew him. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of Gunnars family & friends.

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Dorothy Pitts - October 26th, 2012 at 9:32am
I am sorry for the loss of your son. My heart goes out to you and your family. May the Lord comfort and console you during this time.

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Jessi Coburn - October 26th, 2012 at 9:55am
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with the family and friends in this awful time.

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Loretta Avery - October 26th, 2012 at 10:24am
Patti - I am so deeply saddened by the loss of your son. To be taken from you at such a young age makes my grief pale in comparison to the pain you are feeling but I had to let you know that I am sharing your loss in my own way. No one knows why bad things happen to those so innocent and whose life had just begun. Remember, death leaves a heartache no one can heal but love leaves a memory no one can steal. So continue to show your love for Gunnar and share the stories and share the good memories because you will keep him alive in your heart and in the hearts of other’s.

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Jerry, Becky, Ashley & Nick - October 26th, 2012 at 12:08pm
Patti,Evan,Cade and family, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Gunnar. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you move through this difficult time.

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Shelley - October 26th, 2012 at 12:45pm
Patti,Mike,Evan,Cade,Bill & Gladys- My heart aches knowing the sorrow & pain your feeling from the loss of your precious baby that was taken from you way to soon. I hope you will find comfort in his beautiful memory. My thoughts,prayers & love are constantly with you. God Bless

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Mary Ann Frazier - October 26th, 2012 at 12:57pm
To the family of Gunnar my prayers go to you all at tthis time

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Diane Lindsey - October 26th, 2012 at 2:30pm
Patty & Evan - I'm so sorry for the loss of your young son & brother. There are many people with aching hearts over Gunnar's passing but it doesn't compare to the pain the two of you are experiencing. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in the difficult days ahead and you will be able to share your memories of Gunnar with those who knew and loved him and those who never got the chance to meet him.

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Heather Venable - October 26th, 2012 at 3:34pm
Tom, Tina and the entire family.My Thoughts and Prayers are with you all! My heart aches for you during this very difficult time. Please know there are people surrounding you with love!

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Chuck Albanese - October 26th, 2012 at 5:00pm
Dear Friend, I only met Gunnar a few times in the aisle at LJ SH, but he smiled and said hello each time I saw him. I am saddened by his loss, and I can't imagine how heartbroken you must be. I will pray for you and your family as you continue on. Sincerely, Chuck Albanese

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Myrna Shockley - October 26th, 2012 at 11:43pm
The Shockley family sends our prayers to Gunnar's family during this very difficult time. We are so very sorry for your loss. Myrna Shockley

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Rita Stieve-Behrman - October 27th, 2012 at 8:11am
There are no words to say at times like this. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May Gods loving arms hold you and give you Peace.

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The Stricklins - October 27th, 2012 at 8:26am
Patty, Evan, Cade and all those who loved Gunnar, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. There are no words to express how very sad we are. Tony, Carol, Trevor, Travis and Kelli

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Teresa & Greg Erickson - October 27th, 2012 at 8:41am
Our hearts break for you and we will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer.

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Mack - October 27th, 2012 at 9:57am
God bless you and your family.

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Lonnie Horn - October 27th, 2012 at 10:41am
My thoughts and prayers are for the entire family during this difficult time. Words cannot express the heartache felt by so many family and friends that loved Gunnar. While I only met Gunnar one time, I would like to share my recollections of that day, one of many, shared with his Grandpa and Grandma Bennett (Gaye and Tom). Grandpa Tom, Gunnar, and his brother had just finished working on setting up the yearly traditional Christmas lights and decorations. This was a extravagansa that took weeks to plan and execute. It was amazing to see the bright lights and Christmas decorations. Every inch of the lawn was filled with some time of Christmas object. You just have to witness this experience as there are not enough words to explain it. I remember Gunnar's face lite up with his unassuming smile about all the adventures they had making sure each decoration was in the right place. Inside the house their new fireplace was warming us up after being out in the element. The whole family is so warm and welcoming. There was so much fun, laughter, and joy experienced by all who were there. We sat around the kitchen table and in the family room sampling the delicious foods and desserts thoughout the day. The entire family was blessed with knowing how to cook (everything from scratch). Gaye and Tom always realized how important spending time with their families was. Christmas time is we remember Jesus' birth and difficult it must have been for God to be away from his son but what a celebration he must of had when his son went home to heaven. May God surround you in his loving arms. In this time of sorrow and pain, I hope you can discuss the wonderful memories and times you spent with Gunnar and how much they meant to each and everyone of you. Lonnie Horn (Aunt Joan's friend)

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DEBBIE HURN LASH - October 27th, 2012 at 12:53pm
PATTI, MY HEART HURTS FOR YOU, I AM SO SO SORRY!GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING , LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

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Marlene Eric Devin Crippin and Bill Capps - October 27th, 2012 at 4:10pm
Patti Evan and Cade. My heart is breaking for you, there is no way to express the saddness we feel at the lose your beautiful son. All our strength and love to you and your family in the days to come.Am Peace surround you.

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Cathy Seggie - October 27th, 2012 at 4:34pm
Gunnar was an art student of mine during his elementary years at SHPS. He was surely a great boy and a pleasure to have in class and to have known. I am saddened to hear of his sudden passing - I am sure he will be missed by many. My sincere condolences. Mrs. Seggie

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Lori Mahoney-Holmes - October 27th, 2012 at 11:27pm
Dear Patti & Family I am so very sorry for our loss.

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Denise Goolsby - October 28th, 2012 at 7:54pm
Dear Family, I don't even know you at all but my heart go out to you during this difficult time. I just lost my father and mother within 6 months and my heart is aching so I can only imagine how you feel with loosing someone so young and dear to his family. May God Bless you all.

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SANDY KENNEDY - October 29th, 2012 at 11:03am
PATTI, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. SANDY

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Lori (Davy) Jorgensen - October 29th, 2012 at 11:42am
Patti and family~ I was so saddened to hear of your loss....my heart aches for you. May your wonderful memories comfort and sustain you....he will live on in your heart forever. Prayers to you.

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Pam and Ron Burchfield - October 29th, 2012 at 3:20pm
Patti, Mike and family, our deepest and most profound sympathies. May God be with you as you walk the path of grief and healing.A

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Shona Sorenson-Brower - October 29th, 2012 at 3:33pm
Patti and Family, my heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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Terri Brinks - October 29th, 2012 at 3:36pm
Patti and Mike I just found out you lost your loving child. I am sorry so to hear. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be by your side and in your hearts to get thought hard times ahead. Love and miss Terri Brinks

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Gatha Bennett - October 29th, 2012 at 6:28pm
Evan, your Dad, Tina, Pa & I are feeling the same pain you are right now.All we have are memories of our fun times we had together, which were many! We will forever cherish those memories! We love you boys more than words can ever express! Gunnar will live in OUR HEARTS forever. Our only consolation is knowing we will be with him again one day, this separation is only temporary! Love you Evan! Always remember you are surrounded by our love & prayers! Your Mom, Cade & your Grandpa & Grandma Brinks & all of the Brinks family, Gunnars & your friends will continue to be in our thouhgts & prayers! God will help us all get through this difficult time!

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The Stephens Family - October 29th, 2012 at 10:02pm
"Gone Too Soon" Like A Comet Blazing 'Cross The Evening Sky Gone Too Soon Like A Rainbow Fading In The Twinkling Of An Eye Gone Too Soon Shiny And Sparkly And Splendidly Bright Here One Day Gone One Night Like The Loss Of Sunlight On A Cloudy Afternoon Gone Too Soon Like A Castle Built Upon A Sandy Beach Gone Too Soon Like A Perfect Flower That Is Just Beyond Your Reach Gone Too Soon Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight Here One Day Gone One Night Like A Sunset Dying With The Rising Of The Moon Gone Too Soon Gone Too Soon... You will be missed, Gunnar. We're thankful for all the fun memories of the times we spent together. Knowing that you are with other loved ones who have gone on before us, brings peace. Until we meet again... The Stephens Family, Jeff, Ann, Trey & Michael

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Lori Ellmer - October 29th, 2012 at 10:18pm
Patti and family-I can't even begin to imagine the loss you are feeling right now in your family. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers...may Gods love surround you during this extremely difficult time.