Nancy's Memory Wall
We encourage you to share your most beloved memories of Nancy here, so that the family and other loved ones can always see it. Share your favorite stories or comment on those shared by others.
My Mom -My mom was not an easy person to get close to. -My mom had a hard life. -My mom was strongest person I have ever known. -My mom was very humble, rarely talking about herself or her accomplishments -My mom never wavered in her principles and or her beliefs -My mom raised 3 kids all on her own. -My mom never had much money and always gave more than she could afford -My mom was never big on slogans or sayings about life – she led by a quiet dignified example -My mom never left me or gave up on me when many others did. -My mom always gave me great advise even when sometimes, I didn’t ask for it. -My mom loved unconditionally -My mom never hated anyone – she used to tell me she hated the behavior but not the person. -When my brother passed some 20 years ago, I made a decision and promised myself the day Ernie died, from that day on, I would call my mom every day. I am grateful to say, I kept that promise for over 20 years. -My mom watched me grow up, go to college and graduate beyond all odds -My mom watched me get sober 35 years ago. -My mom supported and actively participated with me some 30 years ago when I took a leap of faith to become a Catholic Christian. -My mom, much like Pope Francis near the end of both of their lives became “an impatient patient” -Many of you here today may not have understood my moms and my relationship and that’s ok…..because we understood it. We were good with it. -Today, I stand before you a 58-year-old man, who is here, in spite of myself, and because of my mom. -On April 16th, 2025, I didn’t just lose my mom, I lost my best friend. -I love you, Mom!! -
Reply
Andy Tripp
April 26th, 2025 at 12:00pm
Reply
Emma
April 22nd, 2025 at 10:30am
I shall be forever grateful to Nancy for raising Kristine.
When Kristine and I began dating she warmly welcomed me into the family and made me feel at ease. She was a true support to us as we raised our four kids and was alsways delighted to see her grandchildren. Every summer she would take the kids for at least a week, which was a true gift to the kids and us. And in the winters, I have many fond memories of holiday gatherings at her home. Thank you Nancy for the love you showed us and our children. Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her.
Reply
John West
April 21st, 2025 at 7:05pm
I first met Nancy at StJoeChristian Reformed church. Norm Thomasma was there-head pastor at the time. My husband,Dan Cook, was reluctant to join the CRC, I think he was won over by the combination of caring individuals like Nancy and by the music (Luanne) . Nancy visited Dan regularly when he was diagnosed with ALS and even brought food—-white chicken Lasagna. Her quiet, sincere talks, and sense of humor sustained us through ALS, turning 50, and days later Dan’s death. She is an amazing lady and the great part is she followed Jesus right to the end. We shall meet again OLD friend. Love Robyn
Reply
Robyn Cook
April 20th, 2025 at 11:52am